keep it dark (snidegrrl) wrote,
keep it dark

Interviews, completed.

Questions from examorata:

1. What's the one thing you most hope to get out of ladies' rock camp?

Real-life experience ont he drums, as in working with other musicians and being the foundation of a song, keeping the rythm in line. Meeting people who might be alot like me. That's two things, I know!

2. If you could take a year's sabbatical to write a book, what would you write about and why?

I wouldn't use a year's sabbatical to write a book, because I'm not a book writer. And I doubt I ever will be. But if I were forced, I guess I would write a kids' book about nature or something.

3. What is one thing you would change about your house if you could?

I would try to find a way to open up the floor plan so that there were less walls and more open spaces. So modern, don't cha know.

4. Obligatory time-travel question: If you could be present at one historical moment, just as a fly-on-the-wall sort of thing, what would you choose and why?

The 1973 Reading Festival or the Monterey Pop Festival. Maybe you were looking for something political or history changing, but there was no one thing in that line I could settle on.

5. When we go on the AT, what book do you think we should take along to read out loud?

Zen and the Art of Motorcycle Maintenance? Uhm... There are some books on my beside table right now that would fit the bill perfectly but I am not anywhere near my bedside table and thusly can't remember what they are or who wrote them.

Questions from keryx:

1. What is the first thing you notice about a new person, or the first thing you think when you meet someone?

Probably if that person makes eye contact or not. Or I semi-conciously try to read if that person is connecting in their own way, if they're not comfortable with eye contact. Body language. Are they proud? Are they haughty? Are they shy? I also notice right away if they fit into a mainstream sort of picture or not. Normal hair and apparel? All leading ultimately to: am I going to be able to communicate with this person?

2. Do you imagine clearly what you'd be like now if you had taken a different path as a teenager or young adult?

Not clearly, no. That's usually the point in the "What if I could change X" self-inquiry where the whole thing breaks down and I realize I don't want to go back and change X. In the more vague: I imagine that I can actually do something, anything, at a professional level because I expended all that wasted energy into practicing an instrument or getting educated properly, not half-assedly.

3. Tell me about love. You've been in many more relationships than I; what have you learned?

A. Nobody can make you happy but you.
B. Jealousy is the love-killer.
C. Nobody's so awesome it's worth sacrificing your personality, dreams, or autonomy.
D. Love in the abstract is great, but also not worth sacrificing you personality, dreams, or autonomy.
Di. If all your dreams are about (romantic) love, you're too outwardly-focused and are setting yourself up for disappointment.
E. Be flexible. Psychologically, too. Recognize the difference between flexible and doormatly.
F. Candidness will get you everywhere. (In love... out of it... around it...)

I'm sure plenty of people would refute any or all of this. I sure haven't like, 100% lived by it or anything. I'm also sure there's some stuff I want to say that's missing that will come to me later.

4. If you had to name a single overarching goal or philosophy in your life, what would it be? What will make you happy when you're 70? :)

I want to help people. If 40 years from now I'm sitting around and looking back, I want to be able to say I contributed something to the world, and since that's not likely to be the cure for cancer or starting a moon colony or assassinating evildoers, I'd just like to say I helped people. And played some music.

5. Has your relationship with your parents changed since you hit 30?

Nope, not particularly. Or generally.
Tags: interview, relationships
  • Post a new comment


    Comments allowed for friends only

    Anonymous comments are disabled in this journal

    default userpic

    Your reply will be screened

    Your IP address will be recorded